To figure out who is the leader and who is the follower in the Sussex family, you don’t need to be a profiler. Whenever she has a need, the Duchess takes initiative of various sizes. Harry sometimes adapts to his wife, however.
The royal columnist and journalist Valentine Lowe revealed in his book Courtiers: The Hidden Power Behind the Crown that the actress gave her husband-to-be an ultimatum even before the wedding. Harry told Megan that if he continued to hide their relationship, she would leave him. The source said: ‘If you don’t confirm that I am your girlfriend, I will break up with you.’” Harry was in a panic,” the book says. The prince, according to another insider, was beside himself with overwhelming feelings and kept repeating that his beloved was leaving him.
Jason Knauf, Kensington Palace’s public relations secretary, eventually helped him. Knauf was asked by Harry to release a statement stating that Meghan is his girlfriend. Markle wanted public confirmation that their relationship was serious. According to Lowe, she believed the palace was unwilling to protect her from media attacks.
Meghan enjoyed being the center of attention, but she did not understand the point of all those strangers shaking hands and talking to strangers. Several employees reported hearing Markle say: ‘I can’t believe I’m not being paid for this,'” his book states.
